With the onset of adolescence, girls and boys are pressured to conform to socially sanctioned gender roles. They are expected to follow the gender norms and practices that a particular society has set. The problem arises when children develop a gender identity that is set against a society’s expectation. There are cultures that are more fluid but there are many which discriminate against non-binary individuals because of stereotypes and misinformation. To make the world shift from the stereotypical gender-assigned roles and become more inclusive and open, we need to create a safe and nurturing environment where individuals can explore their identity and expression.
Rain Must Fall by Nandita Basu is an apt book to start the conversation. Another gem from the author, the underlying social message in the book will be identified by many teens and adults as well. Many a times a cruel and thoughtless remark has left a lasting impression on our lives. Hence it becomes imperative that the mistakes of the past are not repeated in the present. For the younger generation it is a very important topic that they should be cognizant of to become more sensitive, more confident, more open.